I am currently single, and now I should tell you what I am looking for in a potential mate...hmmm goodquestion, I could go the long walks by the beach and candlelit dinners, but can you name anyone who wouldn't be interested in something that nice sounding?

I would rather just say that I would really like to meet someone who makes me feel special. Someone who isn't pushy, loud, rascist, sexist, homophobic, or arrogant. Someone with a lot to give, someone with a sense of humor, and someone who can accept things the way they are.... Patient, understanding, intellectual, hug givers, "gentle"men, and positive people will be given preferential treatment, regardless of social stature and genetic/physical attributes.

I would love a picture though if you have one, but more importantly I would love to know if you are strong enough to deal with someone who is making a difficult journey in her life and let me tell you I need a man who can support me in times of need, a man who can help me when the outside world has gotten inside me and hurt me. A man with courage, compassion, and sometimes a shoulder.